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When it is time to terminate your affair


Date Posted: 1/8/2013 11:57:04 PM

Posted By: billgates  Membership Level: Silver  Total Points: 446

People have fought for the sake of the love they have for their wives, husbands, girlfriends or boyfriends. Most people take that battle with all ambition, expectation, passion and motivation they can find to salvage a near broken relationship. Even though, sometimes people use the mightiest efforts, some affairs never survive. They continue to remain unhealthy, negative or harmful to be in. Sometimes your happiness may come true only if you ended that affair.

Indicators that show when to leave

-You argue a lot or there is constant arguing back and forth.
-None of you want to compromise.
-Both of you will not relent but continue in your disrespectful habits.
-You have become indifferent towards your partner.
-You are constantly experiencing depression.
-You just can’t figure out if you want to be with the person.
-Lots of stress.
-When physical symptoms starts to manifest, e.g headache.
-You no longer love this person.
-You’d rather be with someone else.
-You’d rather remain single.
-You are cork sure you will be happy without them.

If things seem not to work out, it is only best to let go. Clinging to a relationship that isn't working is not healthy for both of you. Sticking to someone who doesn't love you at all is one way to remain miserable for the rest of your life. When you are constantly suffering, it may be a good idea to end the partnership.

Reasons why people hang on to unhealthy relationships

-They feel they have invested lots of time in it.
-They don’t want to be alone.
-They don’t want to start over again.
-They want the other party to initiate the end of the partnership.
-Afraid to end it.
-Confused about what to do.
-Too dependent on the other party to let it go.
-Self-esteem is too low.

When your partner seems to be relaxed, they don’t do anything to make the relationship work, this may be a tell-tale sign

that you should leave. We all know that a relationship is like an investment and since it involves two people, both of them should give 100% of their effort to the union. If neither of you is doing this, you are sure to hit a dead end. If your affair is the most negative thing you are going through in your life, consider an exit.

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